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A Year of Contemplation

Things Happen in Training (Day 116)

4/26/2019

 
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When your sparring partner scratches or head-butts you, you don’t then make a show of it, or protest, or view him wish suspicion or as plotting against you. And yet you keep an eye on him, not as an enemy or with suspicion, but with a healthy avoidance.”
(Marcus Aurelius, Meditations, 6.20)

​Not everyone has had the experience of training in a dojo (or kwoon, or dojang, or salle, etc. etc. etc.). As a civilian, it’s rare enough to have studied fighting and combat to any notable degree (more than “I took a class at college”). Point is this: the training hall is a place where “scratches or head-butts” happen regularly, and it’s never personal. 

Let me repeat that: lots of scrapes and dings… never personal. 

Each day of our lives is like our time in the dojo, like our time spent in training. We move through the world trying out our well-worn (or newly-learned) “social aikido”, and like our partners in the dojo, we certainly don’t mean to do harm… even though, at times, some harm happens. 

Again, it’s not personal. 

Finally, even though from our perspective it’s us who are the recipients of the benefits of the training… our partners are training, too. They’re learning (probably from our screwing up) right there along with us. Side by side in the mix. 

See, it’s how we interpret what we receive that makes it what it is. Most of the time, a scratch is just a scratch… and there’s no need to make it out to me anything more than what it is. 

… but still keep the head up and eyes open around the scratcher and head-butter, no? 

(See y’all tomorrow) 

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    Awakening the desire to explore Stoicism, and how it relates to his existing beliefs, Rev. William committed to working through the text, The Daily Stoic, a year-long journey to awaken the Stoic mind. 
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    Born and raised in New Orleans, Louisiana, Rev. William attended Naropa University in Boulder, Colorado where in 2007 he graduated with a degree in Religious Studies, minoring in Psychology. Currently residing in Longmont, CO, he is one of the Priests and founder of Mountain Ancestors Grove.  He spends his time playing mandolin (and some guitar), writing, engaging in LGBTQIA+ advocacy and education, community service, and sharing a larger vision of how a polytheist perspective can lead to greater human understanding, acceptance, and gods be good, peace. 

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