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A Year of Contemplation

No Self-Flagellation Needed (Day 179)

6/28/2019

 
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As a pagan and polytheist pastor/priest/cleric I’m blessed with the obligation of service, and it’s because of my obligation that, through my work, I’ve come to learn many things about my community (and consequently, myself). I get to see how we as a community, as well as individuals, work with the idea of being hard on oneself.

Among the myriad ways we’ve learned how to beat ourselves up, my personal “favorites” (#sarcasm) are self-deprecating humor and ruthless self-flagellation. Shit, we’re really hard on ourselves. Like… whoa. Maybe because we’re so fearful about that kind of harmful talk coming from another person that we get out in front of things and… and what??? Do it to ourselves? Really? That can’t be the right answer.

Before the other person gets the chance to punch you in the face, you… punch yourself in the face? Really? C’mon, y’all.

Of the worlds religious people, I’d wager that the ones who identified as pagans/polytheist would hold themselves in high regard when it came to intelligence. We consider ourselves a clever lot, yes? Well, for a bunch of super-smart folx, punching ourselves in the face is not terribly bright. I promise. It’s not.

Self-criticism is one thing. That’s something that can be used toward achieving a disciplined self. Self-loathing, “brain weasels”, and beating ourselves up are useless methods and ultimately, counter-productive. There is no penance to be paid for life’s failures, but there is a commitment to ourselves we have to honor: we have to get up one more time than we’ve been knocked down. If, like me, you need a chemical ally to make sure that happens, more power to you! If you don’t? That’s badass, too!

Holding ourselves to a high standard through Virtue practice is admirable, but we have to ask ourselves: is self-abuse really part of our “high” standard?

(See y’all tomorrow)

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    Awakening the desire to explore Stoicism, and how it relates to his existing beliefs, Rev. William committed to working through the text, The Daily Stoic, a year-long journey to awaken the Stoic mind. 
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    Born and raised in New Orleans, Louisiana, Rev. William attended Naropa University in Boulder, Colorado where in 2007 he graduated with a degree in Religious Studies, minoring in Psychology. Currently residing in Longmont, CO, he is one of the Priests and founder of Mountain Ancestors Grove.  He spends his time playing mandolin (and some guitar), writing, engaging in LGBTQIA+ advocacy and education, community service, and sharing a larger vision of how a polytheist perspective can lead to greater human understanding, acceptance, and gods be good, peace. 

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