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A Year of Contemplation

Accurate Self-Assessment (Day 61)

3/2/2019

 
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​If you’ve found your way to my blog, I’m sure you already know I’m a religious person. So religious in fact, that I have pursued my vocation for a lifetime, and serve my community as an ordained person. I know the power religion has to affect one’s life. I’ve seen religion switch on the “a-ha” light in dozens of people when their confusion turns to clarity. Religion is a powerful tool to help one know one’s role in the great-play of life. 

In addition to helping us know our roles, religion is supposed to help us tune in to a more complex cosmos, make sense of things that would otherwise be difficult to understand, and become aware of things that perhaps, without religion, we’d remain ignorant of. 

In short, I’ve invested a lot of my life, time, talents, treasure, and spirit in the multifaceted strength of religion… because when done in healthy ways, religion is helpful. 

However, religions without firm boundaries or virtue expectations, like most expressions of American-neopaganism, are the plots of fertile ground wherein self-delusion is grown. 

Feel-good techniques (as opposed to BE-good techniques), fallacious affirmations in the face of shortcomings, overblown opinions of our own talents, blaming failures on spirits or ancestors or divine beings… all of the above do not allow for an accurate self-assessment. 

Above all, it is necessary for a person to have a true self-estimate, for we commonly think we can do more than we really can.”
(Seneca, On Tranquility of Mind, 5.2)

​Overestimating our talents, abilities, and skills gets us into as much shit as does underestimating them. 

Psychologically speaking, self-assessment is the process of examining oneself in order to assess personality-elements that are crucial to one's identity. It’s one of the motives that drives us toward self-verification and self-enhancement. 

We train our minds and spirits that our accurate self-assessment skills can courageously process our uncertainties instead over-committing on further solidifying our certainties. The self-assessment process is, by far, more interested in the accuracy of our current self-view, and not on improving our current self-view. 

The practice of accurate self-assessment is NOT about bolstering one’s self-esteem. 

It’s about a clean, clear awareness of where we are internally and externally. It’s about finding the “You Are Here” sticker on the mall directory… and not value-judging your placement in the mall. 

(See y’all tomorrow)

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    Awakening the desire to explore Stoicism, and how it relates to his existing beliefs, Rev. William committed to working through the text, The Daily Stoic, a year-long journey to awaken the Stoic mind. 
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    Born and raised in New Orleans, Louisiana, Rev. William attended Naropa University in Boulder, Colorado where in 2007 he graduated with a degree in Religious Studies, minoring in Psychology. Currently residing in Longmont, CO, he is one of the Priests and founder of Mountain Ancestors Grove.  He spends his time playing mandolin (and some guitar), writing, engaging in LGBTQIA+ advocacy and education, community service, and sharing a larger vision of how a polytheist perspective can lead to greater human understanding, acceptance, and gods be good, peace. 

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