Magic(k) can’t turn back time and give you a do-over. Wishing won’t make it disappear either. Science cannot (yet, perhaps) create a portal back in time. Maybe we can “reframe” things, or create a new narrative so we can believe it to be something it’s not. Best not do that, though… sounds like the potential for self-delusion could be pretty high.
So… whatever it was that just happened that you didn’t want to happen has indeed happened.
Can’t change it.
It is what it is.
I say: GOOD!
Why good? Because it’s the “You Are Here” spot on the life-map. See, without knowing where you are, you won’t know how to get to where you want to go.
Even if we planned for something to be different than what’s happening, that doesn’t matter…
… because IT IS WHAT IT IS!
Start there. If you like it, stay there. If you don’t, move to where you want to be.
(See y’all tomorrow)